Tag: sex

Ladies Who Lust

The Scarlet Virgins Episode #11 – Ladies Who Lust Growing up in purity culture, Rebecca and her female friends always heard phrases like “men are visual”, “boys will be boys”, etc. These phrases taught that men were perverted sex beasts due to their interest in sex and that women were more prim and proper, and […]

Hangups in Marriage

The Scarlet Virgins Episode #9 – Hangups in Marriage After Purity Culture Many purity culture “graduates” experience hangups when they get married when it comes to their sexual lives and relationship with their spouse. The fear and shame learned from purity culture often leads them to stay silent about their private thought lives and other […]

Brokenness in Jesus

The Scarlet Virgins Podcast #8 – Brokenness in Jesus When Rebecca talks about taboo topics that come up in purity culture like mental health and sex, she often hears something along the lines of, “Aren’t you worried what people will think?” In this episode, she challenges the assumption that speaking about something means you are […]